When we think about a child being bullied, it’s easy to see the physical damage inflicted, through cuts and black and blue marks, even a bruised ego. But the mental health damage caused by being a victim of bullying can often times go unseen, even though it can be the most devastating damage done.
As children internalize the harmful effects of bullying, several mental health issues can develop.
1. Stress and Anxiety-
When a child is a victim of bullying, their body can go into lasting, low-level stress. When this happens their nervous system remains active and they can go into stress overload. When their body cannot reset or return to a normal state, on-going stress can lead to exhaustion, a weakened immune system, anxiety or panic attacks, headaches, stomach aches, and chest pains. Emotional stress can cause irritability and moodiness or feelings of sadness.
The National Institute of Health has reported that depression is as common among victims of cyber-bullying than among victims of traditional bullying. As cyber-bullying is usually done anonymously and without witness, the victims can feel even more isolated or helpless. If a victim of bullying is suffering from depression, they may begin to lose interest in hobbies or activities they once enjoyed or begin to exhibit decreased energy, sleep or eating disturbances or chronic aches and pains.
3. Self-Harm or Harm to Others-
Bullying can also lead to suicidal thoughts in its victims, as they begin to feel that there is no other solution to the physical or emotional abuse they are facing. Researchers at the Yale School of Medicine’s Child Study Center found a connection between being bullied and suicidal thoughts, with some studies citing that bullying victims are two to nine times more likely to report suicidal thoughts than other children. Even the perpetrators of bullying- the bullies themselves- are more likely to be depressed and to have thoughts of suicide than average youth.
Additionally, high school bullying victims are twice as likely to bring a weapon to school and stopbullying.gov reports that 12 out of 15 school shootings that took place in the 1990s were done by individuals with a history of being bullied.
It’s no longer acceptable to view bullying as a part of growing up or something that will eventually work itself out. If your child or a child you know is being bullied, take the following steps:
If a psychiatric disorder or chemical dependency affects you or a loved one, please call 215-487-4100. We are available 24 hours a day, seven days a week to perform no-cost assessments and answer questions on programs and admissions.